Sweet and Sour

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jV_u9EDE2Z8

Ok - totally random, but I love this ad!

I think it's a great example of people too....
It can work either way - you think you know a person and POOF - shock shock horror horror they stab you where it hurts (the heart!).. SOUR
Or you're not sure about someone - they seem to have a mean-ish streak to them - then you get to know them and aaaawwwww - so SWEET!

Why can't we just be one or the other?!
Why can't our nice words be produced by our actions and then backed up with consistency?
This would make knowing someone, friendships, relationships and marriages etc... just that bit easier!
We could actually Trust better.
We could understand one another.
We could at least expect something coming! Instead of NO signs! none!!
Which in tern allows the other one to prepare and at least approach situations with caution and a shield or sword!

So - a note to all you luke warm, in the middle, indecisive or even scared people -
Don't be a SOUR PATCH PERSON! Don't be Sour or Patchy!
Be Sweet - reliable - trustworthy - backing your words with their appropriate actions!
Sweet Patch People always produce just something lovely!!